TGIF

I woke up this morning feeling like crap. I had one of my horrible migraines yesterday and it never totally went away. When I take the meds for it they make me very nauseous and give me an overall feeling of ugh. I am still not feeling great but I am trying to push myself.
My husband is in a big Challenge concert tonight at a neighboring church. I would really like to be there to show my support. I even have a sitter lined up so I have to go!!!!!! How often do we get a sitter?
I actually got my placement test scores back today. I was shocked at how fast I got them. I have to take basic math (BIG SHOCK THERE.... NOT). I did pretty well in English and I will be going right into a regular English class. Hopefully I can register for classes next week.
Tomorrow we are going to go up to a Lake. It is going to be really hot and humid this weekend. Nice cool water sounds good to me.

Random Pictures

Reynaldo with his pirate hat
They loved playing in this tunnel at the park
AAAyAy Matey
Brothers by chance, Friends by Choice

Wishing On Eyelashes

Dominic learned somewhere that if you have an eyelash that falls out you can make a wish on it. I think he learned it from his Godmother. Well, anyway he made a wish and later I saw him pulling out an eyelash or two and he was wishing on them. I told him to stop and that it doesn't work like that. He proceeded to tell me that he forgot to check his game box to see if his wish came true and he got new games for his playstation. He is too much!!!!

College here I come

I got wonderful news yesterday from the Financial aid Department at the college I will be going to in Sept. I qualified for a Pell Grant and it looks like it will cover everything. I just pray that my books aren't outrageously priced. I am going to buy used ones anyway. Today I am going to take my placement tests. I am actually quite nervous about it and I am trying to get the butterflies in my stomach calmed down.
After we get these results back I can then register for my first semester of classes.

A forever Family wanted

After a very rough night with my ReyRey and KiKi I decided to stay home from church today. Reynaldo cried all night off and on and even woke up crying. I am not sure what was bothering him. He had been doing so well on his meds and I am hoping that it was just due to being overtired. He just seemed so stressed. Kiarrah was up too asking for water, food and to be held. Gotta love those middle of the night huggie moments but I am so tired today. She didnt want to sleep in her own bed either which meant Jim didn' t sleep well either because she is a bed hog.
After breakfast I decided to take them to the park to run around and enjoy the beautiful weather. It was a gorgeous day. I sat and talked to the people around me and met a beautiful young girl named Amanda.
She had asked me if I was a foster parent. I think she had overheard a conversation I was having with a man next to me. He was there with his grandson. She went on to tell me that she is a foster child and had just gotten into an argument with her foster mother and had left the house. We sat and talked for awhile and I gave her an ear because she was really upset and seemed to really need to talk. I was amazed at how open she was. I told her that she needed to go home and let her foster mother know where she was because she would be worried. I even offered to use my phone and call the mom. After an hour of talking to her I took her home and guess what... No one was home. I didnt know what to do but I needed to get my kids home. I gave her my telephone number and told her to call me collect if her foster mother wasn't home after awhile. She called me two hours later and still no one was home. I drove back out to her house a little after I hung up with her because I was really worried about her. No one was in sight. I just pray that she is ok. I am hoping maybe the family came home and they went somewhere together. I really wish I had the room for her but we just can't do it. I don't even have room in my car. She had told me that she was hoping to be adopted soon. She was just a sweet sweet girl. She is just another child out there that wants a forever family.

Crystal Clear Water on a Hot Summer Day

We spent a nice relaxing day today at our town pool. The kids had a blast and loved every minute of it. I am so glad we went. We were originally going to go to the beach but we weren't sure if the one we wanted to go to would be open due to the government shut down. Plus the thought of coming home all sandy was not appealing.
This pool was nice. They have a baby wading pool and then a big one starting at 2 feet. Perfect for my little munchkins. Dominic was all over the place and can actually swim a little. He was even doing somersaults underwater. He really wanted to go jump off the diving board and got up there to try 4 times but he just got too scared, poor thing. We told him maybe next time. This was all his idea too btw. Reynaldo started off on the steps only but after about an hour he decided to join the fun. He was still a little cautious but went in more than I have seen him. Kiarrah is like Dominic and is part fish. She loves to stick her head under water.
We definitely plan on going back there. I know I could even take the kids there myself and be able to handle it. There are lifeguards everywhere and the way they have everything set up is just so accessible.

Race

I read an article today that really upset me. I have thinking a lot lately about my children and their different races and the difficulty we have in actually not knowing their birth fathers races. We do know that Dominic's birthmother is African American, Reynaldo's is Puerto Rican and Kiarrahs is African American. We have absolutely no clue what the fathers are. I don't think the birthmothers even know. What race are we supposed to check off for them? Why does it even have to be something that is checked off on all of these stupid forms I have to fill out everywhere I go? Does it really matter? Along with that thought is my fear of the children having a hard time as they get older with wondering what race they are and why are mommy and daddy and all of my other relatives white. Sometimes I think I have become colorblind. I have just forgotten that the kids are of a different race. I do get knocked back into reality when I get looks and stares and questions like " Is she yours?", to which I want to say " Yes" Don't we look alike? My boys get asked all the time if I am there mom. Dominic actually gets upset when kids will ask him and then look at him like he is lying. We have gotten much more insensitive remarks made and I simply choose to look at it as Stupidity.
This article that I mentioned earlier speaks about the fact that more ads are multiracial. The author seems to feel that is not the real world. He must not be from New Jersey. I see it everywhere. In my church, in my community etc. He feels that you aren't going to have two white children and two black children playing baseball together. It is becoming more of a common thing to see. There are so many different children out there and it is a beautiful thing. I attend a church that is very culturally diverse and everyone talks to everyone else. We worship together and go out to eat afterwards together.
I guess maybe it isn't the "norm and as acceptable" in lets say, maybe the Midwest.
I am happy to see multicultural ads. It might not be the real world for everyone but it should be. Didn't God create all of us? We are all his children. Why does race and color have to be such an issue? If anyone of us gets cut we all bleed red.

I love...

Babies, chocolate, lilacs, sound of the ocean, cool sand beneath my feet, oreos dipped in milk, being barefoot, feeding ducks, clean cotton, laundry flapping on the line, snow days, quiet time with God, Sound of Music, a good book, cool sheets, air conditioners, cooking, shower gel, pedicures, listening to music, buying clothes for my kids, writing all my feelings out, a good cry, a nice cold glass of Icetea, massages, kisses, being called mommy, being married, acting silly, movies that make me cry, sleeping in, breakfast in bed, my girlfriends, good conversation over a hot cup of tea, MAC makeup, the color pink, shabby chic, scrapbooking, yard sales, amish country, bed and Breakfasts, lots of pillows, email, freshly bathed children, tea parties, lace, roses, tulips, Ashleys brownies, dressing up, Children, supporting causes that make a difference and that I believe in, Swedish meatballs, pierogies, eggplant, Julia Roberts Movies, journals, being in love, having Faith, dreams.

Take Me Away...

I am just having one of those days today and it is only 9:17 am. I couldn't sleep and I was plagued with strange dreams all night. Couln't tell you what they were about though because I don't remember. I just dropped Dominic off at his camp and it looks like it is going to be another soggy day. He is going on a mini field trip to a magic show. Reynaldo was very happy to go to summer school. He was so happy to see some of his classmates from Kindergarten. Kiarrah is home today with a UTI. The Dr. seems to think she got it from when we went to the beach on Saturday. Poor thing was running a low grade fever last night. I hope the antibiotics will kick it out quickly. I am going to try and work on some paperwork today. I have to take Kiarrah for an appointment and then I am hoping she will take a little nap. Fat Chance Right? Maybe tonight I can get that bubble bath in.... Calgon Take Me Away!!!!!!!!!!

Crack, Bang ,Boom

We spent a fabulous day yesterday at a Pool/BBQ Party at Dominic's Godfathers house. The kids were a bit waterlogged after spending all afternoon in the pool. Kiarrah decided to jump right in with no one there to catch her. Talk about Faith! Luckily mommy saw her out of the corner of her eye and came to her rescue as she tried to surface. She had absolutely no fear and was quite the daredevil while using the swimming ring (aka tutu to all you prissy girls out there)to stay afloat. Reynaldo was a ladder hugger. He aint a fool. He knows he can't swim and isn't going to fake the part. Dominic is part fish and tried really hard to swim. He learned if you are starting to go under all you have to do it hold down the person next to you to stay a float. Note to Dominic: Do not do that to a pretty little girl who can't touch the bottom herself otherwise she turns into Ursula the seawitch.
Bob cooked quite the feast with your typical hot dogs hamburgers and corn on the cob. He topped that off with London broil, chicken skewers and wings. Everything was absolutely delicious and the company was entertaining.
We moved on to fireworks at dark and it was quite the show. We were armed with garbage can, hose, and police scanner and then began the festivities. After many oohs and aahs and wows, the children enjoyed sparklers while I watched on with fear. I was certain that someone was going to get hurt. Finally I had to look away and have daddy take guard while I willed away an ulcer.
We didn't get home until midnight and the poor kiddos had to go to school this morning. Bad Mommy, I know.

Fuel Injected Evening....

Last Night we decided to take the kids to see the movie " Cars". What a rip roaring movie it was. Mater has stolen our hearts with his witty hillbilly humor. My favorite line in it was when he said" I'm having more fun than a tornado in a trailer park". The movie is set in a world populated entirely with Cars. Even down to having car flys. The movie is filled with love, friendship and loyalty. I loved the whole lesson learned in the movie and I was really happy that my kids "got" it. I wish Disney would make more movies with a good set of values. Kiarrah was very vocal during the movie but got a little antsy towards the end and fell asleep for the last 1/2 hour. We all walked away with a smile.

Day at the Shore

We enjoyed a glorious Day at the Shore on Saturday. Traffic was a nightmare but our final destination was Island Beach State Park. The kids loved the water and playing in the sand. Kiarrah couldn't get enough of the water. Reynaldo would run in the water and then quickly run out. Then he decided Dominic and him should wrestle in it.
Dominic loved to be out in the water riding the waves. It was a wonderful Day for all.

Divine

I just read a really wonderful book called Divine by Karen Kingsbury . The author used a modern day character like Mary Magdalene in the story and spoke of the strongholds that we might face. What a powerful novel. I do hate when a book ends and need to find something new to read. Any suggestions?

I am a Mean Ol' Mom

Dominic is very upset with me today. He attends camp through the recreation dept at our local park. Once a week the kids go on trips to places that aren't exactly close. I just do not feel comfortable sending him on these trips. He is just too young. The first trip is to a water park in PA. He came home from camp the other day telling me that he gets to go to a water park. I had to turn around and tell him that he didnt get to go. I tried to explain that I didnt feel that there was enough supervision for him to go. I feel really bad for him but I am just not ready to let him go. He is only 6. I would go with him on a trip if I could but with my little ones schedule it just isnt possible. I hope he is finished sulking soon so I can see this smiley face.

Old Age Setting in

How is it that I graduated from high school but yet can't remember a lot of what I learned? I am getting ready to take my college placement tests next week and I am amazed at how much I have forgotten. It has been 17 years but still! I need to do some review so I don't totally bomb. Remedial Classes here I come!! I am so determined to do this and to fulfill my dreams. I am so afraid of failing. Worst case senario is that I don't do well in math and can't get into the nursing program. I do have a backup career. I at least want to try. Hopefully , now that I am older I can be more focused then I was in high school.
I can do ALLTHINGS through Christ who gives me strength!!!!

From Back Packs to Beach Bags

The start of summer is finally upon us. Dominic ended school last Wednesday and was very excited to graduate up to 1st grade. He did exceedingly abundantly better than I had expected. He loves school and that makes me so happy. He had started the year out with a full time aide and she was removed after the first month. Despite his disabilities he adapted to his environment and made many friends. He starts a summer day camp tomorrow that is through our town recreation department.
Reynaldo will be graduating from his partial hospitalization program on Friday. He is actually pretty sad that it will be ending. I think it feels very secure there. They have helped him so much and have held him account. We hope to carry that on at home. He is finally on a good dosage of medicine that agrees with him. I think sending him to this program is the best thing I could have done. The only thing that has been affected by this is his school work. The problem is that he only got two hours of academics at the program and most of the teaching that is done in kindergarten is manipulatives. Thank goodness he qualified for the summer program through the school and he will attend the program for the month of July. I hope they are able to do a lot of review with him and catch him up to par. He will be attending a self contained 1st grade class in the Fall.
Kiarrah is still in her therapeutic nursery program. We decided to start her on meds last week and it has made a huge difference. I was so adamantly against it in the beginning but she is just too hyper for her own good. Hopefully with the combination of the drugs and behavior program we can help her.
I have enrolled in college for the Fall. I am going to start part time for the first semester. I decided to go for the nursing program. The first year is probably going to be my remedial classes. I have been out of school so long so it is a little scary. I know I can do this though. I am just waiting to hear back from financial aid to see what I qualify for.
I am looking forward to going to the beach this summer. The kids would also like to go to the Bronx Zoo. We might take a few little day trips here and there. We are supposed to go to Indiana in August if the funds are there.
Off to my mommy duties.....

My little Sweeties

Kiarrah is a Princess I am absolutely certain